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Media Spokesperson Training: Get Your Message Across

Roll the camera to bypass biases and force self-correction.

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How do you train a media spokesperson?

Since 2005, Iโ€™ve been trainยญing media spokesยญperยญsons and pitchยญing their storยญies. As an introยญvert, I respect anyยญone who enters the spotยญlight consciously.

Becoming a sucยญcessยญful media spokesยญperยญson can be dauntยญing, but the outยญcome is valuยญable for both the organยญisaยญtion and the individual.

Here we go:

People Connect With People

We often talk about how people conยญnect with difยญferยญent brands.

But this kind of talk is usuยญally a bitโ€ฆ off the mark.

Sure, we know brands.
But do we conยญnect with brands?

What we do is that we conยญnect with people. And this is why itโ€™s so importยญant to have decent spokesยญperยญsonsโ€‰โ€”โ€‰no matยญter the organยญisaยญtionโ€™s size.

Sure, we do have the abilยญity to anthroยญpoยญmorphยญise. A brandโ€™s unique voice can be established.

But if you want people to conยญnect with your brand, you must popยญuยญlate your externยญal interยญface with humans.

So, how do you train a media spokesperson?

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Media Spokesperson Training

I love coachยญing media spokespeople. Hereโ€™s how to approach your very first media trainยญing as a media trainยญer yourself:

  • Train for an actuยญal appearยญance. General media trainยญing is inefยญfiยญcient. There should be an actuยญal media appearยญance comยญing up. The upcomยญing media appearยญance will sharpen our pracยญtice sesยญsions. The realยญity of the situยญation will make a huge difference.
  • Roll the camยญera already. When we have a rough idea of what the spokesยญperยญson should say, I donโ€™t bothยญer about tonยญalยญity, gimยญmicks, perยญsoยญnas, choice of clothes, etc. Instead, I start the video camยญera. Go! Since there is little preยญparยญaยญtion, we can quickly identiยญfy the problems.
  • Allow for self-corยญrecยญtion. After each attempt, I play the video back. As we watch the footยญage, I ask the perยญson in trainยญing what they think. Sometimes, thereโ€™s nervous laughter. Sometimes, thereโ€™s uncomยญfortยญable squirmยญing. Other times, the mood gets serยญiยญous. But without me havยญing to give any notes whatยญsoยญever, the spokesยญperยญson immeยญdiยญately self-corยญrects. After experยญiยญenยญcing a cataยญlogue of emoยญtions from watchยญing oneยญself delivยญer corยญporยญate cringe unpreยญpared, the spokesยญperยญson soon wants to try again. We will keep doing this until the spokesยญperยญson is โ€œdoneโ€ and ready for careยญful input from the media trainer.
  • Use Socratic quesยญtionยญing. Instead of givยญing notes, I pracยญtice Socratic quesยญtionยญing. โ€œDid you like or disยญlike the way you delivered the mesยญsage? How did it feel when you changed your approach?โ€ These types of quesยญtions can admitยญtedly be annoyยญing, but the spokesยญperยญson is often too engaged in their perยญformยญance to bothยญer about how I behave. Some might seek my approvยญal durยญing the proยญcess, but itโ€™s easy to deflect and redirยญect their quesยญtions back at them. โ€œWhat parts did you like? What parts do you want to change?โ€ 
  • Explain the proยญcess at the end. When weโ€™re nearยญing the end of the trainยญing sesยญsion, either by sheer fatigue or schedulยญing conยญstraints, some spokesยญperยญsons start to think about my role in all of this. โ€œWhy is Jerry not givยญing, only askยญing me quesยญtions instead of givยญing feedยญback? Why is Jerry not telling me what to doโ€‰โ€”โ€‰or what not to do?โ€ Leaders want to know that theyโ€™re getยญting their moneyโ€™s worth. So, I typยญicยญally end the first trainยญing sesยญsion by explainยญing that media trainยญing should allow the media spokesยญperยญson to โ€excavยญateโ€ their best media perยญsona. Itโ€™s always someยญwhere, but they must pull it out themselves. 

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Why Camera-Training Works

In our heads, we have these ideas about ourselves. From a PR coachโ€™s perยญspectยญive, these ideas are genยญerยญally too biased to be helpful.

People with conยญfidยญence think theyโ€™re funny, cool, or good-lookยญing. People without conยญfidยญence believe they are borยญing, awkยญward, or ugly. People in between tend to over-comยญpensate left and right to find some balยญance that isnโ€™t there.

โ€œWouldnโ€™t it be great if I always used this catchยญphrase or if I always wore yelยญlow-tinยญted sunglasses indoors?โ€

Well, maybe you can work those things out with your therยญapยญist later.

If I sit down and talk to these people about how they want to be perยญceived, we enter the world of therยญapy. Not spokesยญperยญson training.

Think of stand-up comediยญans who work hard for decยญades (and someยญtimes their whole careers) to be themยญselves on stage.

When thereโ€™s a stage, a microยญphone, and an audiยญence, our narยญcissยญistยญic biases go hayยญwire, and we start actยญing unnatยญurยญally. And this is what hitยญting the record butยญton on a video camยญera will simulate.

This is why I prefer to start workยญing dirยญectly, not with biased self-images, but with whatโ€™s right then and thereโ€‰โ€”โ€‰on camera.

Classic Media Training Advice

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Classic Media Training Advice

Speaking with a reportยญer while adherยญing to best pracยญtices in media trainยญing is straightยญforยญward in theยญory but difยญfiยญcult in real-life situations.

Here is some clasยญsic media trainยญing advice:

  • Never specยญuยญlate. Anything you say before a reportยญer could be recorยญded and used against you later. Therefore, avoid specยญuยญlatยญing since you might be proven wrong, or your guesses could be conยญveyed as faulty stateยญments of facts to disยญcredยญit you later.
  • Stay on mesยญsage. Develop 3โ€‰โ€“โ€‰4 key points you want to conยญvey and conยญsistยญently steer the conยญverยญsaยญtion back to those mesยญsages. This helps ensure that your core mesยญsages are comยญmuยญnicยญated clearly and freยญquently. 1Silfwer, J. (2024, May 2). The Core Message. Doctor Spin | The PR Blog. https://โ€‹docโ€‹torโ€‹spinโ€‹.net/โ€‹cโ€‹oโ€‹rโ€‹eโ€‹-โ€‹mโ€‹eโ€‹sโ€‹sโ€‹aโ€‹ge/
  • Be preยญpared. Before any media interยญacยญtion, familยญiยญarยญise yourยญself with the journยญalยญist, their recent work, and the media outยญletโ€™s audiยญence. Preparation will help you tailยญor your mesยญsages and antiยญcipยญate potenยญtial quesยญtions. 2Silfwer, J. (2022, June 28). Media Spokesperson Training: Get Your Message Across. Doctor Spin | The PR Blog. https://โ€‹docโ€‹torโ€‹spinโ€‹.net/โ€‹mโ€‹eโ€‹dโ€‹iโ€‹aโ€‹-โ€‹sโ€‹pโ€‹oโ€‹kโ€‹eโ€‹sโ€‹pโ€‹eโ€‹rโ€‹sโ€‹on/
  • Avoid jarยญgon. Speak in plain lanยญguage to ensure your audiยญence underยญstands your mesยญsage. Industry-speยญcifยญic terms can conยญfuse listenยญers and dilute the impact of your mesยญsage. 3Silfwer, J. (2015, October 9). The Platitude Sickness: The Trash of Corporate Writing. Doctor Spin | The PR Blog. https://โ€‹docโ€‹torโ€‹spinโ€‹.net/โ€‹pโ€‹lโ€‹aโ€‹tโ€‹iโ€‹tโ€‹uโ€‹dโ€‹eโ€‹-โ€‹sโ€‹iโ€‹cโ€‹kโ€‹nโ€‹eโ€‹ss/
  • Be conยญcise. Offer brief, clear responses to avoid misยญinยญterยญpretยญaยญtion. Long, comยญplicยญated answers can lead to snipยญpets being taken out of context.
  • Use bridging techยญniques. If asked a difยญfiยญcult or off-topยญic quesยญtion, use bridging phrases like โ€œWhatโ€™s importยญant to rememยญber isโ€ฆโ€ to transยญition back to your key messages.
  • Never lie. Always tell the truth. If you donโ€™t know the answer, say so. Lying can damยญage your repuยญtaยญtion and credยญibยญilยญity if the truth emerges later.
  • Monitor your body lanยญguage. Non-verbal cues can say as much as your words. Maintain an open posยญture and eye conยญtact to conยญvey honยญesty and confidence.
  • Practice. Rehearse your key points and potenยญtial quesยญtions with a colยญleague or a media trainยญer to refine your delivยญery and timยญing. If posยญsible, do it on camยญera for easiยญer review.
  • Manage your emoยญtions. Remain calm and comยญposed, even if the quesยญtionยญing becomes aggressยญive. Emotional responses can be porยญtrayed negatively.
  • Correct misยญtakes. If you misยญspeak, corยญrect yourยญself immeยญdiยญately. This preยญvents misยญinยญformยญaยญtion from spreadยญing and shows your comยญmitยญment to accuracy.
  • Control the pace. Speak slowly and clearly to give yourยญself time to think and to ensure your points are understood.
  • Use examples and anecยญdotes. Personal storยญies or speยญcifยญic examples can make your mesยญsage more relatยญable and memorable.
  • Know when to stop talkยญing. After makยญing a point, itโ€™s okay to stop speakยญing. Filling silence with unneยญcesยญsary elabยญorยญaยญtion can lead to errors or off-mesยญsage statements.
  • Anticipate difยญfiยญcult quesยญtions. Prepare for tough quesยญtions in advance so you can handle them conยญfidยญently without being caught off guard.
  • No blame-gamยญing. Emphasise hopeยญful aspects and soluยญtions rather than dwellยญing on negยญatยญive issues or blame.
  • Avoid non-apoยญloยญgies. Either youโ€™re truly sorry and wish to apoยญloยญgiseโ€‰โ€”โ€‰or you donโ€™t. Thereโ€™s no in-between. Make up your mind beforeยญhand. 4Silfwer, J. (2020, July 26). When a Public Apology is Warranted (And When Itโ€™s Not). Doctor Spin | The PR Blog. https://โ€‹docโ€‹torโ€‹spinโ€‹.net/โ€‹pโ€‹uโ€‹bโ€‹lโ€‹iโ€‹cโ€‹-โ€‹aโ€‹pโ€‹oโ€‹lโ€‹oโ€‹gy/
  • Avoid โ€œno comยญment.โ€ This phrase can appear evasยญive. If you canโ€™t disยญcuss a topยญic, explain why, perยญhaps citยญing priยญvacy or legยญal reasยญons. 5Silfwer, J. (2020, May 23). Corporate Cringe. Doctor Spin | The PR Blog. https://โ€‹docโ€‹torโ€‹spinโ€‹.net/โ€‹cโ€‹oโ€‹rโ€‹pโ€‹oโ€‹rโ€‹aโ€‹tโ€‹eโ€‹-โ€‹cโ€‹rโ€‹iโ€‹nโ€‹ge/
  • Be mindยญful of the backยญground. The setยญting of your interยญview can also send mesยญsages. Ensure the envirยญonยญment reflects the image you wish to convey.
  • Respect deadยญlines. Understanding a journalistโ€™s deadยญline and respondยญing promptly can help shape the story and foster a posยญitยญive relationship.
  • Follow up. After the interยญview, promptly send any promยญised informยญaยญtion or claยญriยญficยญaยญtions. This helps ensure accurยญacy and mainยญtains a proยญfesยญsionยญal relationship.

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Classic Media Training Mistakes

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Classic Media Training Mistakes

Standing before a camยญera or a microยญphone can be stressยญful, espeยญcially durยญing a crisis. Therefore, many leadยญers, politiยญcians, and comยญmuยญnicยญaยญtion proยญfesยญsionยญals invest in proยญfesยญsionยญal media training.

However, media trainยญing can be taken too far.

Answers Without Substance

  • Typical media trainยญing advice: If the reportยญer asks, โ€œIs it unsafe to work for you?โ€ You often canยญโ€™t say โ€˜yes.โ€™ Just because it was unsafe once at one locยญaยญtion doesยญnโ€™t mean all related work envirยญonยญments are unsafe. You canยญโ€™t say โ€˜no,โ€™ either. It was unsafe in this speยญcifยญic situยญation. Youโ€™re being cornered! The only thing you can do is focus on what you actuยญally can say.
  • How this advice backยญfires: Being โ€œmedia trained,โ€ a spokesยญperยญson can get over-conยญfidยญent in their abilยญitยญies. And so, they believe that they can get away with card-stackยญing and talkยญing themยญselves out of the situยญation. Reporters are trained to spot this behaยญviour, and instead of letยญting the spokesยญperยญson off the hook, they start probยญing even harder.
  • What to do instead: Prepare your Q&A betยญter. You must have someยญthing of subยญstance to say before enterยญing the interยญview situยญation. Even if you could talk out of a tricky quesยญtion without sayยญing anyยญthing of subยญstance, the audiยญence will disยญlike you for avoidยญing the question.

Exaggerating the Bridge Technique 

  • Typical media trainยญing advice: Use the bridge techยญnique. While unable or unwillยญing to accept the funยญdaยญmentยญals of the quesยญtion, the interยญviewee can add conยญtext, and by doing so, itโ€™s often posยญsible to slide over to preยญpared stateยญments and talkยญing points. 6Silfwer, J. (2022, June 28). Media Spokesperson Training: Get Your Message Across. Doctor Spin | The PR Blog. https://โ€‹docโ€‹torโ€‹spinโ€‹.net/โ€‹mโ€‹eโ€‹dโ€‹iโ€‹aโ€‹-โ€‹sโ€‹pโ€‹oโ€‹kโ€‹eโ€‹sโ€‹pโ€‹eโ€‹rโ€‹sโ€‹on/
  • How this advice backยญfires: Itโ€™s easy to grasp the mechยญanยญics of the bridge techยญnique. The reportยญer asks a quesยญtion, doesยญnโ€™t answer it, and then disยญcusses what you want to highยญlight. Too often, media-trained spokespeople take this techยญnique way too far. Itโ€™s impolยญite at best and doesยญnโ€™t look good on camera.
  • What to do instead: When youโ€™ve answered a quesยญtion, adding addiยญtionยญal conยญtext or insight into your iniยญtiยญatยญive can be helpยญful to the reportยญer. But always ensure you add conยญtext or insight relยญevยญant to the oriยญginยญal question.

Parrotting Your Key Message

  • Typical media trainยญing advice: Prepare a shortยญlยญist with key stateยญments you want to conยญvey. These stateยญments will help when pressed by a reporter. 
  • How this advice backยญfires: At times, media-trained spokesยญperยญsons might decide to repeat their preยญpared stateยญments word-for-word, over and over again. An irritยญated reportยญer could quickly punยญish you by airยญing this type of โ€œparยญrot behaยญviourโ€โ€‰โ€”โ€‰and itโ€™ll be terยญrible both on camยญera and in audio. 7Silfwer, J. (2020, May 23). Corporate Cringe. Doctor Spin | The PR Blog. https://โ€‹docโ€‹torโ€‹spinโ€‹.net/โ€‹cโ€‹oโ€‹rโ€‹pโ€‹oโ€‹rโ€‹aโ€‹tโ€‹eโ€‹-โ€‹cโ€‹rโ€‹iโ€‹nโ€‹ge/
  • What to do instead: Write down single words to repยญresยญent your intenยญded talkยญing points, and rememยญber these instead of actuยญal phrases. Donโ€™t memยญorยญise word-for-word stateยญments. And most importยญantly, donโ€™t say the same thing repeatedly.

Staring Down the Reporter

  • Typical media trainยญing advice: Most journยญalยญists use a comยญmon trick to remain silent instead of firยญing anothยญer quesยญtion. For most people, this silence is awkยญward and unpleasยญant. To escape this unpleasยญantยญness, they start talkยญing aimยญlessly. The rule of thumb is to be comยญfortยญable and allow for a little quiet now and then.
  • How this advice backยญfires: Allowing for silence is essenยญtial, but you do not need to sit there and stare intensely for 30 seconds. Because this doesยญnโ€™t look good, either. Many media-trained spokesยญperยญsons apply this advice by triยญumphantly tryยญing to stare down the reporter.
  • What to do instead: If the reportยญer is serยญiยญous about stayยญing quiet for a long time, careยญfully use the bridge techยญnique to add more conยญtext and insight. But take a few moments in silence to think about what youโ€™ll say before you open your mouth. The key is not to be afraid of silence, feel the need to fill these pauses with excessยญive talk, or enter some starยญing conยญtest with the reporter.

Relying on Non-Apologies

  • Typical media trainยญing advice: Donโ€™t be afraid to apoยญloยญgise. Making an apoยญlogy pubยญlicly is someยญtimes just the right thing to do. The importยญant thing here is not to sound like a robot but to make sure you genuยญinely empathise.
  • How this advice backยญfires: More often than not, media-trained spokespeople say things like, โ€œWeโ€™re sorry they feel this way,โ€ โ€œWeโ€™re sorry if this didยญnโ€™t come across,โ€ or โ€œWeโ€™re sorry that youโ€™re sorry.โ€ These stateยญments are also known as non-apoยญloยญgiesโ€‰โ€”โ€‰and everyยญone rightยญfully hates them. 8Silfwer, J. (2020, July 26). When a Public Apology is Warranted (And When Itโ€™s Not). Doctor Spin | The PR Blog. https://โ€‹docโ€‹torโ€‹spinโ€‹.net/โ€‹pโ€‹uโ€‹bโ€‹lโ€‹iโ€‹cโ€‹-โ€‹aโ€‹pโ€‹oโ€‹lโ€‹oโ€‹gy/
  • What to do instead: Connecting through emoยญtions means talkยญing and actยญing like a human being. Donโ€™t say that youโ€™re sad; be sad. And even more importยญantly, avoid non-apoยญloยญgies altoยญgethยญer. Itโ€™s about your feelยญings on the matยญter, not theirs. If you canยญโ€™t express human emoยญtions like empathy durยญing difยญfiยญcult times, see a therยญapยญist, not a reporter.

Using Platitudes and Jargon

  • Typical media trainยญing advice: Never specยญuยญlate. Nothing good ever came from second-guessยญing anyยญthing in front of a reportยญer. Stick to what you know.
  • How this advice backยญfires: Media-trained spokespeople rarely say things like โ€œno comยญmentโ€ or โ€œI can neither conยญfirm nor deny.โ€ They know betยญter. However, resortยญing, as many do, to platยญitยญudes and jarยญgon instead is not a much betยญter strategy. 9Silfwer, J. (2015, October 9). The Platitude Sickness: The Trash of Corporate Writing. Doctor Spin | The PR Blog. https://โ€‹docโ€‹torโ€‹spinโ€‹.net/โ€‹pโ€‹lโ€‹aโ€‹tโ€‹iโ€‹tโ€‹uโ€‹dโ€‹eโ€‹-โ€‹sโ€‹iโ€‹cโ€‹kโ€‹nโ€‹eโ€‹ss/
  • What to do instead: Avoid corยญporยญate cringe. Talk like you would with someone you met on the street askยญing for dirยญecยญtions you do not know, and nevยญer resort to platitudes.

Transposing Human Emotions

  • Typical media trainยญing advice: The story is always about people, so you should focus on those dirยญectly involved. Addressing shareยญholdยญers, marยญkets, and cusยญtomยญers will have to come second.
  • How this advice backยญfires: To address the human aspect, many spokespeople make the misยญtake of tryยญing too hard to reasยญsure people. But itโ€™s nevยญer a good idea to tell people not to worry if they arenโ€™t ready. If you conยญtraยญdict peopleโ€™s feelยญings, youโ€™re actยญively disยญqualยญiยญfyยญing their real emotions.
  • What to do instead: Donโ€™t talk about othยญer people as if you have magicยญal insights into how they feel. Once again, itโ€™s about your feelยญings, not theirs.

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Media Spokesperson Selection

Training to delivยญer mesยญsages to an audiยญence is paired with someยญtimes conยญflictยญing ideas of identity.

Many fantยญastยญic pubยญlic figยญures have cerยญtain tradeยญmarks that allow them to stand out. I know of an excelยญlent Swedish ecoยญnomยญics proยญfessยญor who often makes pubยญlic appearยญances in his Tโ€‘shirts, long black hair, and black-painted fingernails. 

But thatโ€™s not where it begins. Maybe you rock black finยญgerยญnails, but those finยญgerยญnails must be what remains after youโ€™ve removed everything thatโ€™s not you. Finding your spokesยญperยญson perยญsona is a proยญcess of elimยญinยญaยญtion, not a methยญod of adding quirky trademarks.

Eventually, tryยญing out creยญatยญive ideas to spice up pubยญlic appearยญances or develยญop perยญsoยญnas can be great fun. But itโ€™s not a good place to start. Some argue that spokespeople should be chaยญrisยญmatยญic, good-lookยญing, intelยญliยญgent, knowยญledgeยญable, and witty. 

In my experยญiยญence with coachยญing spokespeople, those traits are liabยญilยญitยญies long before they become assets. If weโ€™re in a hurry, Iโ€™d prefer someone Stoic.

This is not just because Stoicism looks good on camยญera but also because a Stoic perยญson is more likely to accept that pracยญtice, experยญiยญence, and rigยญorยญous preยญparedยญness are the way to go.

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PR Resource: The Stoic PR Professional

Stoic Philosophy for Public Relations

Iโ€™m inspired by Stoicismโ€‰โ€”โ€‰and intrigued by the idea of transยญlatยญing clasยญsicยญal Stoic virยญtues (wisยญdom, courยญage, justice, temยญperยญance) and applyยญing them to pubยญlic relations:

The Wisdom Pitch

โ€œA Stoic is someone who transยญforms fear into prudence, pain into transยญformยญaยญtion, misยญtakes into iniยญtiยญation, and desires into underยญtakยญing.โ€
โ€” Nassim Nicholas Taleb

Tell PR storยญies of how organยญisaยญtions can be wise and overยญcome obstacles that have stopped othยญers in their tracks. Convey PR mesยญsages on how to apply wisยญdom, knowยญledge, and experience.

The Courage Pitch

โ€œWe canยญnot choose our cirยญcumยญstances, but we can always choose how we respond to them.โ€
โ€” Epictetus

Tell PR storยญies of brands that nevยญer back down in the face of hardยญships that would desยญtroy othยญer organยญisaยญtions. Convey PR mesยญsages of how an organยญisaยญtion can be rightยญeous even when storms are raging.

The Justice Pitch

โ€œConcentrate every minute on doing whatโ€™s in front of you with preยญcise and genuยญine serยญiยญousยญness, tenยญderly, willยญingly, with justice.โ€
โ€” Marcus Aurelius

Tell PR storยญies of how organยญisaยญtions relentยญlessly can strive for honยญesty and transยญparยญencyโ€‰โ€”โ€‰even when uncomยญfortยญable. Convey PR mesยญsages about how all brands, without excepยญtion, can rid themยญselves of disยญhonยญesty and incompetence.

The Temperance Pitch

โ€œItโ€™s not the man who has too little, but the man who craves more, who is poor.โ€
โ€” Seneca

Tell PR storยญies of organยญisaยญtions that strive for highยญer valยญues in a world where all othยญer organยญisaยญtions sufยญfer shortยญsightedยญness. Convey PR mesยญsages of organยญisaยญtions preยญpared to abstain from short-term gains to make the world betยญter for all.

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PR Resource: The High Road Tonality

The Stoic Tonality

An organยญisaยญtion is the polyยญphonยญic sum of all its coworkยญers. Imagine extractยญing each coworkยญerยญโ€™s most virยญtuยญous and mature traits and comยญbinยญing them into one voiceโ€‰โ€”โ€‰the Stoic tonality.

  • Openness. A virยญtuยญous organยญisaยญtion underยญstands that everyยญone must be allowed to express their thoughts and opinions.
  • Fairness. A virยญtuยญous organยญisaยญtion will see (and respect) both sides of a divisยญive argument.
  • Strength. A virยญtuยญous organยญisaยญtion is conยญfidยญent in its chosen strategies and acquired abilยญitยญies, not because theyโ€™re perยญfect, but because they are grounded.
  • Wisdom. A virยญtuยญous organยญisaยญtion will take the time to explain comยญplex topยญics without condescending.
  • Humility. A virยญtuยญous organยญisaยญtion underยญstands that no one can have everything comยญpletely figured out and that we all have learnยญing and growยญing to do.

Stoic Tonality Examples

โ€œWhy doesยญnโ€™t your brand speak out against indusยญtriยญal overยญfishยญing killing our oceans?โ€

โ€œAs a comยญpany that sells fishยญing gear, we want our oceansโ€‰โ€”โ€‰and all animยญals and plants livยญing in them!โ€‰โ€”โ€‰to be healthy and plenยญtiยญful. We, too, were disยญturbed by the recent news of overยญfishยญing. How could anyยญone not be? We now ask ourselves, how can our comยญpany make more of a difยญferยญence? Honestly, weโ€™re disยญcussยญing our strategy for susยญtainยญabยญilยญity every day. I canยญnot say how or when we might take speยญcifยญic action regardยญing this latest news, but rest assured that weโ€™re takยญing the genยญerยญal issue of savยญing our oceans seriously.โ€

โ€œWhy doesยญnโ€™t your brand engage in Black Lives Matter?โ€

โ€œAs for right now, weโ€™re listenยญing. Weโ€™re listenยญing to the storยญies being told. Weโ€™re listenยญing to underยญstand betยญter how we can learn and grow as a comยญpany. As for inclusยญiveยญness and human rights in genยญerยญal, we think weโ€™re doing a great job, and part of that is to stay open and careยญfully listen to peopleโ€™s storยญies. We might take speยญcifยญic actions, but weโ€™re listenยญing and learning.โ€

โ€œWhy doesยญnโ€™t your brand join our protests against toxยญic masยญculinยญity and the patยญriยญarchy?โ€

โ€œHonestly, weโ€™re a product comยญpany. We make products for anyยญone who likes them. And I dare say that weโ€™re experts in makยญing these products. However, weโ€™re not experts on ideoยญloยญgies or sociยญetยญal strucยญtures. So, for now, we listen. And we conยญtinยญue to focus on makยญing the best products that we can. For everyยญone. We believe thatโ€™s our best way of conยญtribยญutยญing at this point.โ€

โ€œWhy doesยญnโ€™t your brand sign our petiยญtion to boyยญcott all comยญpanยญies on our Environmental Black List?โ€

โ€œAs a comยญpany, we operยญate difยญferยญently. Instead of signยญing petiยญtions or parยญtiยญcipยญatยญing in othยญer pubยญlic demonยญstraยญtions, we take action withยญin our sphere of influยญence. And I dare say that our many envirยญonยญmentยญal iniยญtiยญatยญives are makยญing a lot of difยญferยญence worldยญwide relยญatยญive to our size and reach. If we were to sign your petiยญtion, we would first have to use our resources to research the legitยญimยญacy of its creยญatยญors and then make sure that none of the comยญpanยญies on that list is being wrongยญfully accused. While it would be posยญsible, weโ€™ve decided that we can do more good by dirยญectยญing our resources to where we can make the most difference.โ€

โ€œWhy doesยญnโ€™t your comยญpany act against your female employยญees who take time off for aborยญtions?โ€

โ€œAll our employยญees are grown-ups, and what they do on their own time is frankly none of our busiยญness. Weโ€™re a large comยญpany, and we have employยญees who are pro-life and pro-choice. We believe we have a workยญplace where people can have difยญferยญent opinยญions but still respect each othยญer and work well together.โ€

โ€œWhy hasยญnโ€™t your comยญpany offered your thoughts and prayยญers for the vicยญtims and their famยญilยญies of the school shootยญing?โ€

โ€œThe vicยญtims and their famยญilยญies have our empathยญies, of course. I speak for everyยญone workยญing at our comยญpany when I say we were devยญastยญated by the news as everyยญone else. But youโ€™re right that we havenโ€™t posยญted any status updates about the shootยญing on our Facebook page. Itโ€™s not that we donโ€™t care (we do!), itโ€™s just that we focus our updates on our products and serยญvices and how they make a posยญitยญive difยญferยญence in the world.โ€

Learn more: The Stoic Tonality: Rise Above With Integrity

PR Resource: The Paradox of Prominence

The paradox of prominence.
The paraยญdox of prominence.
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The Paradox of Prominence

The ever-loomยญing โ€œdark sideโ€ of what drives peopleโ€™s interest can be chalยญlenยญging for pubยญlic relaยญtions (PR) and comยญmuยญnicยญaยญtions proยญfesยญsionยญals. This pheยญnomenยญon, where every strength inherยญently posยญsesses a corยญresยญpondยญing downยญside, can be called the โ€œParadox of Prominence.โ€

An example of this paraยญdox is the halo effect, where physยญicยญal attractยญiveยญness becomes an asset for a spokesยญperยญson. Attractiveness often leads to posยญitยญive biases; attractยญive indiยญviduยญals are freยญquently perยญceived as more credยญible and comยญpetยญent. 10Eagly, A. H., Ashmore, R. D., Makhijani, M. G., & Longo, L. C. (1991). What is beauยญtiยญful is good, butโ€ฆ: A meta-anaยญlytยญic review of research on the physยญicยญal attractยญiveยญness steยญreoยญtype. โ€ฆ Continue readยญing 11Silfwer, J. (2023, December 17). The Halo Effect: Why Attractiveness Matters in PR. Doctor Spin | The PR Blog. https://โ€‹docโ€‹torโ€‹spinโ€‹.net/โ€‹hโ€‹aโ€‹lโ€‹oโ€‹-โ€‹eโ€‹fโ€‹fโ€‹eโ€‹ct/

However, this same attribยญute can spark negยญatยญive reacยญtions. Critics might claim that the indiยญviduยญalโ€™s sucยญcess or visยญibยญilยญity is primarยญily due to their looks, underยญminยญing their comยญpetยญenยญcies. This dualยญity illusยญtrates how the qualยญitยญies that draw posยญitยญive attenยญtion can simยญulยญtanยญeously attract criยญtiยญcism and scepticism.

Competence, anothยญer valuยญable trait, often encounยญters simยญilยญar pitยญfalls. Highly comยญpetยญent indiยญviduยญals inspire conยญfidยญence and admirยญaยญtion. Nevertheless, this comยญpetยญence can be perยญceived negยญatยญively when willยญfully interยญpreted as arrogยญance. Studies sugยญgest that while comยญpetยญence garners respect, it can also lead to social penยญalยญties, such as envy and resentยญment. 12Fiske, S. T., Cuddy, A. J. C., Glick, P., & Xu, J. (2002). A modยญel of (often mixed) steยญreoยญtype conยญtent: Competence and warmth respectยญively folยญlow from perยญceived status and comยญpetยญiยญtion. Journal of โ€ฆ Continue readยญing

Examples of the Paradox of Prominence

The paraยญdox of promยญinยญence seems to be an inherยญent aspect of human interest dynamics. 

ProminencePositive OutcomeNegative Outcome
Physical attractยญiveยญnessEnhanced credยญibยญilยญity and trustAccusations of superยญfiยญcial success
High comยญpetยญenceRespected and trusยญted as an expertPerceived as arrogยญant or unapproachable
CharismaAbility to inspire and attract followersViewed as manipยญuยญlatยญive or insincere
Strong advocacyIncreased supยญport and mobilยญizยญaยญtion for a causeTarget of intense criยญtiยญcism from opponents
WealthSeen as sucยญcessยญful and influentialResentment and accusยญaยญtions of greed or unfairness
AssertivenessEffective leadยญerยญship and decision-makingLabeled as domยญinยญeerยญing or aggressive
InnovationAdmired for creยญativยญity and forward-thinkingResistance to change and criยญtiยญcism from traditionalists
High visยญibยญilยญityGreater recogยญniยญtion and influenceIncreased scruยญtiny and loss of privacy
GenerosityViewed as kind-hearted and philanthropicSuspected of ulteriยญor motives
Success in comยญpetยญitยญive fieldsRole modยญel and symยญbol of achievementEnvy and attempts to underยญmine accomplishments

We must recogยญnise that with every increase in visยญibยญilยญity, there is a corยญresยญpondยญing increase in scruยญtiny and criticism.

Pick Your Opponents Wisely

Public awareยญness comes with inevยญitยญable costs.

In the quest for greatยญer visยญibยญilยญity and influยญence, it is critยญicยญal to acknowยญledge that โ€œbeing uniยญverยญsally well-likedโ€ is a naรฏve and unrealยญistยญic goal. 

  • โ€œPublic relaยญtions proยญfesยญsionยญals must straยญtegicยญally decide the audiยญences they aim to attract andโ€‰โ€”โ€‰of equal importยญance!โ€‰โ€”โ€‰the adversarยญies they are willยญing to conยญtend with.โ€

By straยญtegicยญally harยญnessยญing this paraยญdox, pubยญlic relaยญtions proยญfesยญsionยญals can manยญage pubยญlic perยญcepยญtion by interยญnยญalยญising expecยญted โ€œdownยญsidesโ€ as addiยญtionยญal awareยญness drivers. 

Learn more: The Paradox of Prominence

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PR Resource: The Core Message

Core message in public relations.
The core mesยญsage for pubยญlic relaยญtions professionals.
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Core Message vs Slogan

A core mesยญsage is the foundยญaยญtionยญal concept for all marยญketยญing and comยญmuยญnicยญaยญtion strategies. 

Unlike a sloยญgan, which can be seen as a catchy, often superยญfiยญcial tagline, the core mesยญsage is a deepยญer, conยญsistยญent narยญratยญive that conยญveys a brandโ€™s funยญdaยญmentยญal valยญues and promises.

Core mesยญsage = the funยญdaยญmentยญal idea or promยญise that a brand conยญsistยญently comยญmuยญnicยญates across all platยญforms, definยญing its valยญues and what it stands for in every interยญacยญtion with its audience.

Slogan = a catchy phrase or series of words used in marยญketยญing and advertยญising to quickly capยญture attenยญtion and accurยญately encapยญsuยญlate a brandโ€™s appeal or mission.

Together, the core mesยญsage and the sloยญgan ensure all comยญmuยญnicยญaยญtions and marยญketยญing activยญitยญies are aligned, reinยญforยญcing the brandโ€™s idenยญtity and misยญsion across all platforms.

Please note: Seen as a promยญise, the core mesยญsage must reflect the organยญisaยญtionโ€™s main advantยญage over comยญpetยญing organยญisaยญtions. All marยญketยญing- and comยญmuยญnicยญaยญtion activยญitยญies must reinยญforce this senยญtiยญment more clearly than any efforts by their competitors.

Core Message vs Slogan Examples

These examples showยญcase how the core mesยญsage comยญmuยญnicยญates a deepยญer, ongoยญing misยญsion or cusยญtomยญer promยญise. In conยญtrast, the sloยญgan is a catchy, immeยญdiยญate hook that comยญpleยญments and enhances the core message.

Red Bull

  • Core Message: Energizes and enhances perยญformยญance in extreme sports and advenยญturยญous activities. 
  • Slogan: โ€œRed Bull gives you wings.โ€

Apple

  • Core Message: Innovating user-friendly techยญnoยญlogy with sophยญistยญicยญated design to enhance everyยญday life. 
  • Slogan: โ€œThink Different.โ€

McDonaldโ€™s

  • Core Message: Providing conยญsistยญently good food quickly in a famยญily-friendly environment. 
  • Slogan: โ€œIโ€™m lovยญinโ€™ it.โ€

Microsoft

  • Core Message: Creating techยญnoยญlogy that empowers every perยญson and every organยญisaยญtion on the planยญet to achieve more. 
  • Slogan: โ€œBe whatโ€™s next.โ€

Ikea

  • Core Message: Making stylยญish, funcยญtionยญal, and affordยญable Scandinavian furยญnishยญings availยญable in the spirยญit of everyยญday simplicity. 
  • Slogan: โ€œThe Wonderful Everyday.โ€

Nike

  • Core Message: Inspiring athยญletes everyยญwhere to reach their potenยญtial with innovยญatยญive sports gear. 
  • Slogan: โ€œJust Do It.โ€

IBM

  • Core Message: Developing techยญnoยญlogy and conยญsultยญing to lead busiยญnesses towards innovยญaยญtion and efficiency. 
  • Slogan: โ€œLetโ€™s put smart to work.โ€

Spotify

  • Core Message: Personalise music streamยญing experยญiยญences to conยญnect users with the right music for every moment. 
  • Slogan: โ€œMusic for every moment.โ€

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1 Silfwer, J. (2024, May 2). The Core Message. Doctor Spin | The PR Blog. https://โ€‹docโ€‹torโ€‹spinโ€‹.net/โ€‹cโ€‹oโ€‹rโ€‹eโ€‹-โ€‹mโ€‹eโ€‹sโ€‹sโ€‹aโ€‹ge/
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10 Eagly, A. H., Ashmore, R. D., Makhijani, M. G., & Longo, L. C. (1991). What is beauยญtiยญful is good, butโ€ฆ: A meta-anaยญlytยญic review of research on the physยญicยญal attractยญiveยญness steยญreoยญtype. Psychological Bulletin, 110(1), 109โ€‰โ€“โ€‰128. https://โ€‹doiโ€‹.org/โ€‹1โ€‹0โ€‹.โ€‹1โ€‹0โ€‹3โ€‹7โ€‹/โ€‹0โ€‹033โ€‰โ€“โ€‰2909.110.1.109
11 Silfwer, J. (2023, December 17). The Halo Effect: Why Attractiveness Matters in PR. Doctor Spin | The PR Blog. https://โ€‹docโ€‹torโ€‹spinโ€‹.net/โ€‹hโ€‹aโ€‹lโ€‹oโ€‹-โ€‹eโ€‹fโ€‹fโ€‹eโ€‹ct/
12 Fiske, S. T., Cuddy, A. J. C., Glick, P., & Xu, J. (2002). A modยญel of (often mixed) steยญreoยญtype conยญtent: Competence and warmth respectยญively folยญlow from perยญceived status and comยญpetยญiยญtion. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 82(6), 878โ€‰โ€“โ€‰902. https://โ€‹doiโ€‹.org/โ€‹1โ€‹0โ€‹.โ€‹1โ€‹0โ€‹3โ€‹7โ€‹/โ€‹0โ€‹022โ€‰โ€“โ€‰3514.82.6.878
Jerry Silfwer
Jerry Silfwerhttps://doctorspin.net/
Jerry Silfwer, alias Doctor Spin, is an awarded senior adviser specialising in public relations and digital strategy. Currently CEO at Spin Factory and KIX Communication Index. Before that, he worked at Kaufmann, Whispr Group, Springtime PR, and Spotlight PR. Based in Stockholm, Sweden.

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The cover photo isn't related to public relations obviously; it's just a photo of mine. Think of it as a 'decorative diversion', a subtle reminder that it's good to have hobbies outside work.

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