The way I see it, there are Strugglers and Smugglers.
I’m not good at a great many things.
I’m terÂrible at savÂing money. I’m also terÂrible at going to the gym regÂuÂlarly, stickÂing to strict diets, wakÂing up early, writÂing on the same proÂject every day, comÂpilÂing time reports. The list goes on and on.
So what, you ask. Lots of people would say the same thing.
Am I just anothÂer entitled asshole for not wantÂing to do the things that I find to be boring?
Or worse — am I just a slackÂer who lives under the illuÂsion that I’m someÂhow too speÂcial for monoÂtonÂous work?
During one of my proÂcrasÂtinÂaÂtion sesÂsions, I came up with this theÂory: there are Strugglers and there are Smugglers.
Let me explain:
Going Down the Rabbit Hole
In my mind, a sucÂcessÂful perÂson is thrivÂing mainly due to their habits. They have an almost heroÂic amount of self-disÂcipÂline, they have their eyes firmly fixed at their tarÂgets, and they go after them fiercely yet patiently. One inch at a time.
“Successful people got their shit together.”
Well, for 40 years now, I haven’t had my shit togethÂer at all.
Does this make me, like, unsuccessful?
At 40 years old, I’ve adopÂted a new way of lookÂing at success.
Here’s the rabÂbit hole I decided to go down:
I’m not actuÂally “unsucÂcessÂful.” But I cerÂtainly don’t “have my shit togethÂer.” How does this work?
Then, a little bit deepÂer down the rabÂbit hole:
I struggle a lot, but for whatever reasÂon, it’s as if the struggle with the struggle itself isn’t in my wheelhouse.
Then, a little bit deepÂer down the rabÂbit hole:
It all seems very much like a Pareto prinÂciple thing: If I “struggle with the struggle” for 80% of my time, it still only yields 20% of the posÂitÂive results.
Then, a little bit deepÂer down the rabÂbit hole:
To get by, I do things to cope with everyÂday struggles, like writÂing this blog. I always feel guilty about it, simply because it feels so good.
Then, a little bit deepÂer down the rabÂbit hole:
However, the things I do seem to yield 80% of the posÂitÂive resÂults. So, there we go with the Pareto prinÂciple again.
And, at the botÂtom of the rabÂbit hole:
It seems that I should be doing less of what typÂicÂally makes othÂer people more sucÂcessÂful and more of what makes me more successful.
What’s this all about? Why is everything counter-clockÂwise down here?
Strugglers and Smugglers
Most sucÂcessÂful people seem to be great Strugglers, yes. But maybe not all of them?
Maybe some sucÂcessÂful people are sucÂcessÂful for othÂer reasÂons rather than “havÂing their shit together”?
My hypoÂthesÂis is this:
There might be a subÂset of sucÂcessÂful people who canÂ’t help themÂselves but focus on doing things that no one is askÂing for right now. They sneak their stuff out in the wild to see what happens.
Allow me to call them Smugglers:
To smuggle is to ship a conÂstant stream of novÂel conÂtent, novÂel ideas, and novÂel solutions.
As opposed to the Strugglers:
To struggle is to do all the things you’re supÂposed to do even though it’s hard.
The Pareto Principle of Smuggling
Since I encountered the Pareto prinÂciple down in that rabÂbit hole, why not go all-in?
Out of sucÂcessÂful people, 80% are Strugglers, and 20% are Smugglers.
We canÂ’t all struggle all the time, and we canÂ’t all smuggle all the time.
Since Strugglers will get 80% of their resÂults from 20% of their struggles, they should find a balÂance of 80% strugÂgling and 20% smugÂgling.
Since Smugglers will get 80% of their resÂults from 20% of their smuggles, they should balÂance 80% smugÂgling and 20% struggling.
Of course, this whole line of thought could be 100% nonsense.
But what if there’s a hint of truth to this?
I’ve tried to shift from 80% struggle to 20% and do the opposÂite for smuggling.
And, I couldÂn’t be hapÂpiÂer about the results.
The Benefits of Being a Smuggler
By acceptÂing myself as a Smuggler, I’ve encountered sevÂerÂal stagÂgerÂing benefits:
Since smugÂgling, at least for me, yields 80% of the posÂitÂive resÂults, I now get sigÂniÂficÂantly more and betÂter results.
I get so much energy from 80% smugÂgling that the remainÂing 20% of strugÂgling now feels like a soothÂing breeze on a sunny day in the park.
I’m now less hard on myself, which makes me hapÂpiÂer, which yields even more posÂitÂive results.
Pretty cool, right?
This shift in mindÂset, howÂever nonÂsensicÂal, seems to be workÂing well for me.
How does it work daily?
How to Smuggle Successfully
Here are a few pracÂticÂal examples of how smugÂgling works for me:
I find to-do lists sufÂfocÂatÂing, so I keep them to an absoÂlute minÂimÂum. Instead, I use “have-done-lists” to docÂuÂment the things I ship durÂing a day. The more I send because I want to, the more energy I get.
If I feel down someÂhow, I take a break and creÂate someÂthing novÂel. For instance, a cliÂent could sudÂdenly get a whiteÂpaÂper with a detailed soluÂtion to a probÂlem they didÂn’t even know they had.
I pair up with talÂenÂted Strugglers, people who get lots of energy from absoÂlutely crushÂing their to-do lists but who might get anxious about uncerÂtainÂties. We can share the load while boostÂing each othÂer with energy.
I introÂduce novÂelty to othÂerÂwise typÂicÂal struggle-type tasks. For instance, in the gym, I bring a noteÂbook and chalÂlenge myself to develÂop ten excitÂing ideas durÂing every workout.
Could this idea apply to your life in any way?
I honÂestly don’t know.
For sure, this could very well be the most nonÂsensicÂal artÂicle I’ve ever written.
Still, I just had to ship it.
Update: I did a perÂsonÂalÂity test called the Big Five Aspects Scale. Given my outÂlandÂish theÂory above, the resÂults sure was interesting.